Do you hate Sunday nights? - rethinking your life purpose and applying 3 habbits of successful people
Some readers complained about bad feeling on Sunday nights. Tomorrow it’s workday tomorrow will be hard day , tomorrow work week begins..
Isn’t it because we hate our job? Maybe we don’t hate it so much, we like our job, it seems we like to be here. But still some feelings like this Sunday feeling can come.
The reason is, If you are caught by this feeling, and it lasts already for a long time, think about the way you are going in your life.
Your job is obviously not fulfilling your self-esteem your deeper needs.
So why do still work here? To earn money to earn for living you’ll answer. You are comfortable to have something but not to risk much.
It’s true, but rethink again. Maybe the job owns you. It not fits the way you like to work it not fits Your way. The subject the industry the type of your work might be wrong.
What will be is to continue in the same bad mood?
You’ll still work in the same job, you’ll still feel bad on Sunday nights. Ok, let us say, you are promoted. You are happy. How long? After some time you’ll still be more happy not working at all at this job. Of course you can even quit working in office at all, how? - here is a big site for this type of people.
Watch the movie - Office space. especially DVD version with extra chapters. (Look for chapter about , “what if I could not work for a year…”)
So let’s try the solution:
There are principle of successful people. Maybe we can try them to solve our problem?
1) successful people keep trying a lot. You need to change your jobs until you are happy on Sunday nights. Of course you must analyse before - is it better now? Do I feel more happy after changing job? Do I want to go to job tomorrow? If yes you keep doing, if no, change again. But you don’t need to change jobs af a fool, apply 2 principle.
2)successful people don’t upset after mistake - they learn from it. If you feel bad at job you think why, what are the reasons? Don’t blame the job - Its your fault (look for 3 principle why). Don’t be angry - its your emotions (its not intelligence working)
3) successful people are proactive. They are responsible for themselves, and they understand - they are not guided by others or dependent on them.
If your job is bad, it because of you. Don’t blame your boss. It’s you who don’t cope with him well. Of course don’t blame yourself. (look for 2 principle).
So try these principles in simple things at first, and then you could start with your job with your future.
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